For some, the thrill of wearing diapers comes from being old enough to know better! Seeing hot girls and guys act their age even though they're diapered can be a major turn on, and avoiding the baby stuff can be difficult even if you're not interested. This is a group for pictures, stories and discussion of diapers without the baby angle.
Philosophy is central to life of all people. This is the group for ABDLs to come together and discuss ideas from diapers to the meaning of life. We shall discuss established ideas and new ideas. One rule: no matter what another group members point of view is, you will respect it! Agree or disagree.
The best I can advise is to not "surprise" her with it; it will freak her out (Did that once; not a good outcome). Definitely ease into that one. Perhaps have a couple drinks at the house alone before the discussion to loosen both of you up first. Maybe start with the history behind it to kind of show why you really cannot control these desires or something. Good luck man.
I've been into them since I was a toddler. I still have a hard time understanding how it's even possible, but I had my first sexual experience in one back then. I remember standing in the livingroom watching TV with the fam, and then my mother took me upstairs and put me in a diaper and put me to bed. After she left I remember the diaper stimulating me sexually when I moved my legs (still beyond me how it's even possible) and I somehow got off. Had this fetish ever since. (I apologize if this is more information than anyone wanted to read. I've never shared my story to this detail before.)
Maybe depending on your geography selections may differ, but if you're getting them from a drug-store (ie. CVS, Walgreens, etc) then I would suggest Depends Maximum Fitted Protection. They're the only plastic-backed one I've found left in the stores.