My search is at a cautious pace. I'd prefer to friend a companion rather than to start out as a couple. I don't enjoy instant gratification. So, if you're looking to role play online or cyber move on.
Although, kink is a large part of my life it is not all of it. I am looking for someone I can connect to not just through kink, but other interests as well. However, I do need kink in a relationship. It needs to be something that is well maintained or I falter and loose interest. This doesn't mean that I need a rigorous 24/7 kink saturated relationship, but it does mean that I will not go without.
I consider myself a submissive age playing diaper loving little girl and part time brat. That's a mouthful huh?
I have many kinks and fetishes and I don't limit myself. I love to mix and match fetishes and kinks. Yes, I am the one who might be very well ahem "padded," while being flogged and bound to a cross. Or I might be the bratty little girl standing in a corner thinking of what to do next. I also just might be the woman you see getting pounded in the ass with a heavy wood paddle. Or the service top in a spanking demo. Or the little girl blushing a deep purple at the mere mention of “diapers.”
I do enjoy experiencing new things. However, I do have my hard limits. Such as scat, minors, and permanent long term damage, both physical and emotional.
I believe in honesty and open communication.
My ultimate fantasy would be to be in a poly relationship with two bisexual men. I am poly but not with other women. I need to be the only female in the relationship.
I am not new to kink. I have ten plus years under my belt. I consider experience to mean involvement in your local kink community, or having a steady play partner, or learning at a steady pace. I don't consider experience to mean knowing that you've been kinky since childhood but not actually experiencing it. And no, to me online role play doesn't count.
But I'm not egotistical about it. To me the lack of knowledge just means you haven't had a chance to experience things yet. I don't look down on others for not knowing something that I know. I think that's silly. However, I do believe in safe play and if you lie about your experience you put yourself and others in harms way.
I'm a big girl. I will never be small except in height. I love to struggle both physically and mentally. I enjoy erotic wrestling. I'm not in it to wi